When Graham and I decided to buy an old house, and in the process of looking for just the right one, a surprising number of people asked us if we were worried about ghosts. And the short answer is, no, not especially.
I believe in ghosts. I always have. And I’ve been to a few places I’m certain are really, truly haunted. But I’m not particularly afraid of ghosts, and as we toured historic homes, I wasn’t concerned that we might be walking into our own ghost story.
We did look at one home – it was our second choice, actually – that I felt pretty certain had a ghost or two.
But our house? No, I don’t think it’s haunted.
It’s a question we get a lot. Every time someone comes to visit for the first time, they usually ask. And I can’t blame them! This is, after all, a very old house in a very old village with a cavalry battle in its history. There’s certainly been a lot of opportunity for this house to acquire a spirit or two.
And sometimes, I wonder if I might be wrong.
Often, people will suggest we do a ghost hunt. They’ll offer, and talk about how exciting it would be, and how their friends are really into that kind of thing. And…just no. Y’all, I have to live here. Why would I want to invite the possibility of being frightened in my own home?
This house is cozy. It’s happy. I’ve always felt like it’s a happy space. And so, even if there is a ghost or two roaming around, I don’t think they have any intention of bothering us. I feel lucky to live here, and grateful. A house doesn’t have to have a ghost story to have a story. I’m fortunate to be part of this one.
A Virginia Writer's Diary 
The time that I truly felt the presence of something was when we traveled the “Journey Through Hallowed Ground” in Virginia. It runs from Monticello to Gettysburg but we were only on it for a short time. I’m with you, why would I want someone to come into my house for that purpose?
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I believe it! We’re surrounded by Civil War history here – lots of ghost stories around us.
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I believe in ghosts, too … our past selves are kind of like ghosts anyway
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In a way, they are. That’s a really interesting way to look at it!
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Yeah!! 🧟♂️🦹🏻👻
Watch out
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Nothing to watch for here, but we’ve got plenty of stories around us. It’s a good time for ghost hunting, but I’m a wimp. Lol.
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Ghost can watch and adore you 😛
How are you doing dear friend?
How’s health?
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I’m well! Trying to get ready for Baby Girl. 🙂 How are you doing?
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Glad to know!!
Take care
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You do the same!
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A house doesn’t have to have a ghost story to have a story – perfectly put. I liked the little humour you’ve sprinkled in this post too. It’s nice to be grateful and it’s also nice to have a house with a history methinks.
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It is! Owning an old home is definitely a whole thing – lots to do, all the time – but I wouldn’t trade it for the world. This house is part of our family, just like we’re part of its story. It’s just so cool.
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I won’t believe in ghosts either so I don’t feel afraid 👌
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I do believe in ghosts, but I’m not afraid of them. I figure, there are lots of other things that are a whole lot scarier than ghosts.
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Yes human are more scary
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I believe in ghosts but you’ll definitely know if you have one.
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That’s basically how I feel – like, if my house were haunted, I’d know. It wouldn’t be a question. But it is a very old house, and I’ve had friends insist they feel it’s haunted. I think it’s just because it’s old and some of the rooms can be a little dark.
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Yes you would def know, and I agree older homes seem that way but are so cozy and well made.
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Yes! I wouldn’t trade my old house for the world. It’s so peaceful and cozy. And not haunted.
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There ya go!
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Your last line is superb! Well done 👍
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Thank you! 🙂
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