Becoming isn’t just to be.
It is to make,
to create
to sew,
to choose a path and go.
It is to do,
and not get happened to.
It’s to wish that wish
and whatever it is,
to plant it,
tend it,
help it grow,
and in the working know:
Every day is new.
Month: December 2025
A Bittersweet Christmas Present
After over a year, we’ve finally sold our beloved Tail Feathers.

It’s a relief, and honestly, feels like a gift after the financial panic we’ve been feeling. We didn’t anticipate it taking so long to sell, but things in Northern Virginia being as uncertain and unstable and scary as they are…well, that’s all I should probably say without getting overtly political.
ANYWAY.
It’s been really tough on both our wallets and our hearts to carry it for so long, is what I’m getting at. And now, it’s done. And boy are we feeling lots of feelings.
It’s bittersweet, saying a final goodbye. It was the first house we ever lived in together that truly felt like a home, and the first we made our own. We’re heartbroken, and we’re relieved, and we’re happy to see it no longer sitting empty and waiting. We left it better than we found it, even if we left it sooner than we thought we would. I hope the new owners enjoy it, and take care of it, and fill it with joy and good memories. I hope they love it just like we did, and more.

With all the stress of the sale – and some health news in the family that is not mine to share – it’s not been quite the holiday season I wanted. But I’m still grateful that we are where we are, able to get back on even footing money-wise, here and happy and loved, and constantly chasing after our beautiful, brave Lucy, who is fascinated by all things Christmas. Sometimes you just have to choose to be happy, and this year, in spite of everything (again, not trying to get overtly political), I am choosing to be happy.
And I hope you are, too. I hope you have a wonderful and happy whatever you celebrate, and that your season has been full of peace and light and good things. As we come into Christmas week, I wish all of us warmth and calm, and love. So much love.
Merry Christmas, and here’s a big hug from me to you. I needed one, and now you have one, too.
Lucy Is Not Impressed
We took Lucy to see Santa over the weekend, and well…

She wasn’t scared or anything, but just look at that face!

Bored. So bored. Just utterly unimpressed.
For comparison, this is how she looks at Merlin:

I mean, everyone should find someone who looks at them the way Lucy looks at Merlin.
And the funniest thing about it is, she’s obsessed with all things Christmas and Santa right now. I think maybe it just didn’t click that there was the big guy. But I bet it will next year!
(Almost) Wordless Wednesday: A Snowy Surprise
Well, this was just wonderful. 😊

Winter is still my favorite, even now that I live at the beach these days. I never take snow for granted, generally but especially now, and I thoroughly enjoyed this beautiful evening. (And you bet I sat out on my porch in my pajamas and watched it fall!)
New Old Traditions (A Poem)
Old traditions now
become new.
I will never get tired of building
this beautiful life
with you,
my Lucy Blue.
