Through Rosacea-Colored Glasses

/ Katie

It’s how I’ve looked at the world for over two years now.

It started slow, a couple of months before Lucy was born. Just an irritating red spot on my cheek. No fun, but not a huge deal, and I thought it would probably resolve itself after pregnancy.

Spoiler alert! It did not.

You see it, right? Right there on my cheek, in one of my favorite pictures with Lucy. Sigh.

And despite several different treatments and lifestyle and diet changes, it got much, much worse.

SO. MUCH. WORSE.

This was late October. Less than a month ago.

So now here I am, sitting in my writing chair, at nearly 40 years old, discovering skin care and (GASP) Accutane for basically the first time in my life.

Let me back up.

I’ve always had pretty clear skin. It’s been quite a blessing, I know, that I haven’t had major issues with acne or dark circles or unevenness or scarring or anything. I feel lucky. Or, at least, I did. I’ve never had to think very hard about skin care. Some cleanser, a good moisturizer, maybe a toner and a fun face mask every so often. And makeup? Eh, just some powder and blush and mascara got me through for a long, long time.

My entire world has changed.

It’s exhausting, being so uncomfortable in your own skin. The rosacea looks terrible, sure, but it feels worse. It stings and itches and burns, and often at night, it’s so bad that I can’t find a comfortable spot to rest my cheek on my pillow.  Add to that, I’m afraid that it will never go away. I’m genuinely afraid that in every single picture, for all of Lucy’s childhood, my face will be either bright red and covered in inflamed spots, or that it will be so caked with makeup that I can’t really recognize myself.

Which brings me to now, back to my writing chair, watching Lucy nap beside me without a care in the world.

After every treatment and lifestyle change failed, my dermatologist suggested Accutane. I started it on October 20th. It’s a scary medicine, with lots of potential side effects, a few of which – the dryness, oh my gosh the dryness – I’m feeling pretty acutely.

But y’all, it’s working.

It’s the only thing in nearly two years that’s actually worked.

I’m cautiously optimistic, and hoping I can finish the six-month course of treatment. I’m hoping that it’s a long-term cure, though I know that’s not always the case. And I’m finally starting to feel like my old self again. I can wear makeup and it looks nice and not like housepaint! I can go out without makeup and not worry about scaring small children and nervous pets!

And I know what people say: No one pays that much attention.

But I pay attention. I don’t consider myself a vain person. But two years of not liking what you see in the mirror, that takes a toll. And I’m so ready for something, something to work.

So, fingers crossed. And if anyone is going through something similar and is interested in updates, I’m happy to post them! I might do a monthly check-in here. I don’t know. But I do know that for the first time since before Lucy came, my face finally feels like mine again.

And I’m so thankful (because let’s be seasonally appropriate, right?) for that.   

31 thoughts on “Through Rosacea-Colored Glasses”

    • Thank you for reading! Sorry to hear you’re dealing with rosacea, too. It is seriously no fun. At all. The Accutane is still working well for me! The side effects aren’t super bad (at least so far), but they’re definitely a thing. Nothing else has worked, so I’m keeping my fingers crossed that this does the trick!

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  3. I am glad you are seeing success with this treatment. Certainly the hormone changes with pregnancy can impact us, and post pregnancy rosacea is not uncommon. Sun exposure can worsen it, also. My worst side effect was hair loss, but it did eventually pass, as distressing as it was. I hope as you stay the course, you continue to respond to treatment. Bless you!

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    • Thank you! I haven’t experienced the hair loss, though I’m kind of expecting it. I had a cousin who took Accutane and he remembers it thinning his hair. It’s been quite a journey from the time right before Lucy came to now. She turns two this week (she’s so awesome!), and when I look back at the months, I just feel like time has gone so fast. I honestly feel like a different person some days, rosacea included. Anyway, it seems to still be working quite well, and almost a month in, I’m mostly clear!

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    • I’m just so relieved and can’t believe it’s worked so well so fast. I’m really hoping it continues! It’s been such a long road, and a hard one, too. But I can see some light at the end of the tunnel!

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    • Thank you! I’m happy you enjoy it, and thank you for reading!

      It seems to be working so far! Fingers crossed it continues to, and the side effects aren’t too bad. What a journey this has been!

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  12. Oh Katie, I’m so sorry! I feel for you! It’s absolutely a drag. One time I got poison oak so bad I blew up and I looked like I was 300 pounds and the doctor didn’t recognize me when I went in my eyes were completely solid shut. He wanted to hospitalize me immediately but of course, maybe being me said no it eventually resolved a lot quicker than what you’re dealing with but hang in there. It looks 100% better than it was take good care.💕

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    • Oh my gosh, that sounds awful!! Glad it resolved without you needing to be hospitalized, but still, ugh, no fun.

      I’m really hoping this works! My face looks great right now! It’s such a refreshing change to wash it and not feel a ton of itchy, sore bumps. I’m really grateful it seems to be working.

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